it's not easy to just go to a person and ask them to be friends.i realy don't know what to doI;m alone ,i don't have anyone to talk to,it's just me and my computer in a dark room ,in a dark house.Advice?
first of all, turn on the lights. itll help your mood, and improve your view on things (literally!)
then, think about yourself, what are the good things about yourself, things other people will like about you.
this will help your self-esteem and confidence, you need confidence to talk to people, no matter who they are.
then, think about things you like, you enjoy, or want to do. is there somewhere youve always wanted to visit? something your talented at like art or photography?
you can join classes for these, orif you fancy a trip, there are websites for single or ';lonely'; travlellers, like travelbuddy.com i think its called, just search in google.
they find people similar to you, and you go on trips or holidays and stuff.
once you find common ground with people, they can talk to you a lot easier, and before you know it youve made a friend.
or you could try getting into contact with people you used to know, like i dont know how old you are, but from school or college or something? just try and catch up, and go out for coffee or something. something like this will get you out of the house, and help you with confidence aswell.
good luck.
hayley xI;m alone ,i don't have anyone to talk to,it's just me and my computer in a dark room ,in a dark house.Advice?
Go to a sporting event, a bar, a church, libraryor any where people are.A s to the dark room , in a dark house dont you have any lights? how about a candle?
YOu find common interest with a person. Maybe join a common interest group or go to social funcitons and find someone you can relate to. People dont always want to be friends, but being yourself in a social situation works best. Bring on your best sense of humor and your know how, and before you know it, you will be the center of your own social circle.
Judging by your lack of spelling and grammar skills, you'll be alone the rest of your life. Maybe you should move to a trailer park.
If possible %26amp; needed,try to have more light added in your room %26amp; send me an email asking me to be your friend.I will be glad to talk to you.There is a place here in answers that will tell you how to email me.I just found that out today.
HEY--GO TO CHURCH--THEY HAVE SINGLE MEETINGS--JOIN A VOLUNTARY ORGANIZATION--TALK TO THE NEIGHBORS--DO U WORK? GET IN THE CONVERSATION WITH THEM AT WORK--ABOUT THINGS YOU KNOW ABOUT--BE FRIENDLY AND MOST PEOPLE WILL BE FRIENDLY BACK--IF YOU DON'T TALK MUCH--YOU COULD CHECK ON A GROUP OF PEOPLE IN YOUR TOWN THAT MAY BE JUST LIKE YOU---CHECK IT OUT AT THE LIBRARY
turn on the lights sweetie
U can contact a social group The address should be on the internet or a group of some sort to meet people It is a start. Im sorry u feel like this but it wont always be this way. Things can happen so quickly u could meet someone and ur life will be so much better
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